Title: Why Men Love Bitches
Author: Sherry Argov
First published October 1, 2009
288 pages, ebook
ISBN: 9781605501550 (ISBN10: 1605501557)
Rating: 3.86
Overview
Are you tired of always being the one who gives and never receives? Sherry Argov’s Why Men Love Strong Women offers a refreshing take on relationships and why men are drawn to women who can hold their own.
With witty anecdotes and practical advice, this guide teaches you how to assert yourself in a relationship without sacrificing your own needs. Argov answers the burning questions that many women have such as why men can be so charming at first and then change, why they take nice girls for granted, and why standing up for yourself earns a man’s respect.
With the author’s unique “Attraction Principles” and relatable relationship scenarios, you’ll learn how to increase the chemistry in your relationship and gain your man’s love and admiration with less effort. Embrace your feisty side and discover a new level of confidence in your relationships with Why Men Love Strong Women.
About the Author
Sherry Argov’s books, Why Men Marry Bitches and Why Men Love Bitches, have gained immense popularity in the relationship guide genre. Book Tribe recognized her books as “America’s Top Relationship Guide,” and Yahoo voted them as “One of the Ten Most Iconic Books of the Past Decade.” Her articles have been published in over 100 magazines worldwide, including Vanity Fair, Cosmopolitan, Self, Glamour, and People Magazine.
She has also been featured on various national television shows like The Today Show, The View, and Fox News Channel’s “The O’Reilly Factor.” Her books have been listed on the “New York Times Bestseller List” and the “Los Angeles Times Bestseller List” multiple times and continue to dominate as a #1 bestseller on Amazon in several categories. The live theater production of her book is also a #1 first-class hit in Latin America, and her books have been translated into over thirty languages and published worldwide.
Connect with Sherry by visiting her websites, following her on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram.
Editoral Review
In her bestselling book Why Men Love Bitches, Sherry Argov offers a bold, no-nonsense guide to modern romance that has captured the hearts and minds of women around the world. First published in 2002 and updated in 2009, this book continues to fly off the shelves, with its mix of humor, insight, and advice that promises to help women succeed in love and life.
At its core, Why Men Love Bitches is a self-help book that offers practical tips and tricks for women who want to take control of their relationships and find love on their own terms. Argov draws from her own experiences and interviews with men to create a fictional character, “The Bitch,” who embodies the qualities that men find irresistible – strength, independence, confidence, and a bit of sass.
Through a series of anecdotes and examples, Argov lays out the dos and don’ts of dating, from how to initiate contact and set boundaries to how to handle a breakup and move on. Along the way, she dispels common myths about love and relationships, such as the idea that being overly accommodating will win a man’s heart – instead, she argues, it’s the women who can stand up for themselves and demand respect who will ultimately earn their partner’s love and admiration.
While the book’s style and tone may be polarizing – some readers may find the term “bitch” off-putting or harsh – its message is clear and empowering. By encouraging women to value themselves and prioritize their own needs and desires, Argov champions a feminist approach to romance that is as refreshing as it is effective.
Despite its popularity, however, Why Men Love Bitches is not without its flaws. At times, the book can feel repetitive or overly focused on the heteronormative male-female relationship dynamic, without considering other perspectives or identities.
Some of the advice may also be too extreme or unrealistic for some readers, such as the suggestion to never initiate plans with a man first, or to always put yourself first no matter what. Overall, though, Why Men Love Bitches is a worthwhile read for anyone who wants to learn more about themselves, their partners, and the art of love.
Its engaging prose, relatable examples, and empowering message make it a standout in the crowded self-help genre, and its insights are sure to stick with readers long after they finish the book. Rating: 4/5 stars.
While it’s not perfect, Why Men Love Bitches is an important and entertaining book that offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships. Highly recommended for anyone looking to improve their dating life or their sense of self-worth.
